Here's a couple of great articles on Cracked.com on how to make yourself a better person and how to see yourself as you really are. Not that bullshit you've been feeding yourself.
http://www.cracked.com/blog/5-ways-youre-sabotaging-your-own-life-without-knowing-it/
So...
If you can handle it, I suggest you take a gander at them. If you don't come out a different person, even slightly, after reading those. Then, you have no soul.